Friday, September 28, 2012

Remembering the 1961 Maple Hill High School Junior/Senior Prom

While visiting Kansas earlier this month, my family gathered for dinner at The Blind Tiger Brewery and Restaurant, which is located at the south end of what used to be White Lakes Shopping Center near 37th and Topeka Avenue in Topeka, Kansas.   I didn't recognize the name, but as we drove into the parking lot, I realized that 50 years ago, the restaurant was known as Helen's Catering and Party House.


This above is a current photograph of The Blind Tiger Brewery and Restaurant, which has had some additions since my high school prom 50 years ago.   I remember only the very large stone house at the right.   I don't remember Helen's last name, but I remember her as a very elegant, white-haired lady who played host to many of the area's nicer private parties.

Maple Hill was a town of about 350 when I attended high school there.   The entire high school had only 41 students in 1961 and 1962, my junior and senior years.  The school was built in 1921 and had double the enrollment at that time.   I don't think the town's population was any larger at that time, but the size of families was much larger in the 1920s and 1930s than in the 1950s and 1960s.   The school was consolidated with other Wabaunsee County schools in 1968 and was torn down during the 1990s.

There were 10 students in our class of 1962.   There were 12 students in the class of 1961.   I suppose it wasn't very practical to operate a high school for 40 students, but we received an excellent education from the faculty of six teachers, of which two coached football, basketball and other sports.   One of those faculty members was a full-time music teacher and Maple Hill High School had what I always thought of as a good band, chorus and other music activities.   That was supplemented by Mrs. Lois Hammarlund, who was our church organist and choir director.   She and her brother Edwin Stambaugh had both received excellent musical training at McPherson College in McPherson, Kansas.   But as usual, I digress!

The Junior Class always "sponsored" the prom for the senior class during my school days.   Each of the classes had fund raising projects and made money to sponsor these events.   The junior class of 1962 included five boys and five girls:   Mary Sue Kitt, Claudia Arnold, Sharon Oliver, Patty Holmes and Janice Yount were the girls and Larry Schulte, Art Adams, Jr., twins Horace and Norris Hoobler and myself were the five boys.    I remember our class selling magazines as a fundraiser and we also took our turns sponsoring the concession stand during football and basketball events.   There may have been others.

We began planning the prom after Christmas.   We decided that the theme would be "Evening In Paris."   We made some of the decorations and we ordered others out of school catalogues.   We spent a lot of time during and after school making decorations and signs.  I believe we hired a DJ to provide dance music for the evening---although my memory is not crystal clear on that point.   We may have just had a record player and 45rpms of popular songs like, "Smoke Gets In Your Eyes," "I Can't Stop Loving You," "Soldier Boy," "Duke of Earl," "Twist and Shout," "Johnny Get Angry," "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" and so many others.

I was a saver even then---and in a scrapbook, I have the menu, program, napkin and several snap shots of the evening.   I remember Oney Clark, our MHHS custodian and bus driver, taking us to Topeka several times to meet with Helen at Helen's Catering and Party House, and also to decorate a couple of days prior to the event.   Oney was a lot of fun and probably more permissive than he should have been, but we all liked he and his wife Juanita.


Oney and Juanita Clark on the front porch of their home in Maple Hill, Kansas.
Oney was a cousin of mind and he and Juanita (Arnold) Clark lived either next door or very near us most of the time I was growing up in Maple Hill.   
 
After 50 years, the memories of that "Evening In Paris" are very dull.   I remember that my date for the evening was Claudia Arnold and I remember having a good time---riding the school bus to and from Maple Hill, just insure our safety and that we didn't sneak a Coors into the party :)
 
I don't know why I have so few photographs of the evening.    Perhaps there was a camera malfunction or some other reason, but I'll share with you what photos I have:
 
 Norris Hoobler and Mary Sue Kit.
 
 




 


 





Arthur Adams, Jr. and his date, Patty Holmes.


 
Class sponsor, Miss Florence Crawford, Paxico, Kansas.

 
Sitting at the left is Oney Clark.   Sitting at the table for four at the right are:  (facing the camera) Ginger Wilson and Merle Lietz (school board member).   With their backs to the camera are Principal Jack Wilson and Mrs. Nora Lietz.
 
I wish I had found these photographs for the 50th Alumni Reunion in June, 2012, but I didn't find them until just recently.    What a great time we had at the Junior/Senior Prom in 1962.    Those were years to remember and look back on with pleasure.
 
Note:   I am looking for a good photograph of Maple Hill High School.   Does anyone have one they would be willing to scan and share via email?    Many thanks!!
 




 
 
 
 
 
   

Monday, September 17, 2012

It's Time To Begin Anew

I noted that my last blog was posted on August 2, 2012.   I'm sorry that I have not been very faithful to continue with my historical and genealogical writing, but perhaps now I will be able to continue with regular contributions through the fall and winter.

As I've mentioned before, I began this blog because I have hundreds of photographs gifted to me from my mother, and both grandmothers.   Fortunately, most of the people in those photographs are identified.   I promised these ladies that I would publish them and share them with my siblings and other relatives.   At the time, I thought I'd write a book but preparing this blog is much better.  Not only are the photographs and information available to my immediately family, but also to my extended family and anyone who cares to utilize the blog.   I'm also very happy that any of the photos on this blog are easily copied and transferred to the computer of the reader.   It's certainly a win/win situation.   Now all I have to do is scan the photos and write the material.

This past week, I returned from attending the funeral of my younger brother, Steven K. Clark of Topeka, Kansas.   Steve was only 57 years old.  Five years ago, doctors discovered lung cancer and Steve underwent surgery to remove affected areas.   Surgery was followed by chemo therapy.  It took several months, but Steve's health improved and he was hopeful that he had beaten it.

Unfortunately, the cancer returned earlier this year as bone marrow cancer and lymphoma.   Steve has spent much of the last three months either hospitalized or in Hope Lodge, a residential treatment center of the American Cancer Society in Kansas City, Missouri.  Unfortunately, all that could be done by physicians and medical science, as well as a loving wife and family, could not prevent his untimely death.

I was 12 when my twin brothers, Steven K. and Stanley J. Clark, were born in 1955.  I was old enough to help with their care, and yes, tease them mercilessly.  Unfortunately, I was headed off to college when they entered Kindergarten, so I missed a good portion of their grade school and high school days.   As happened when my mother passed away in 2011, I heard stories about Steve and Stan's early life that I had never heard when we met with the pastor to plan his funeral service.

As happens when identical twins are separated, my brother Stanley J. Clark has especially felt the loss.  Stan told the pastor that he didn't think a single day had passed in the last 57 years when he and Steve didn't visit in person or on the phone several times.   They did everything together through their life.

Steve's wife Brenda (Harris) Clark, has been his rock throughout his battle against cancer.   She stayed by his side, sleeping in a hospital bed much of the time, to make sure that he took his medicines and had the help he needed.  No wife was ever more loving and loyal than Brenda.

Steve's children, were there for him, and without a doubt, one of the most important people in his life over the past year was his grandson, Noah Porter Ray.  Here is a copy of Steve's obituary:


Steven K Clark, 57, of Topeka, passed away September 7, 2012 at a Topeka hospital after a courageous battle with cancer. Steve was born January 27, 1955, in Wamego KS to John L. and Lucille (Corbin) Clark. He graduated from Alma High School 1973. He married Brenda Harris September 15, 1979 in Topeka. She survives. Steve started his 36 years of working at the Colmery-O'Neil V.A. Medical Center as a nurse's aide, then supply technician and finally as head of supply for logistics. He was an avid outdoorsman who loved to fish and hunt and he graciously shared his bounty. Steve was a loving husband, a wonderful father and grandfather. He is survived by his wife, Brenda, Topeka; children, T.J. Clark, Topeka, Katy Lynn Clark (Josh Ray), Topeka; grandson, Noah; brothers, Nicholas L. Clark, Palm Springs CA, Gary W. Clark, Maple Hill; twin brother, Stanly J Clark (Karen), Topeka; parents-in-law, Denzil and Marilyn Harris; brothers and sisters-in-law, Jim and Sherry O'Neill, Holton, and David and Emily Harris, Topeka; many nieces and nephews and his loving yellow lab, Buck. Family will greet friends from 4-6 p.m., Tuesday at Kevin Brennan Family Funeral Home, 2801 SW Urish Rd, Topeka KS 66614, where a Memorial Celebration of Life will be at 6 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to Clark Grandchildren Education Memorial Fund at any Envista Credit Union or to American Cancer Society's Hope Lodge, KC MO sent in care of the funeral home. Online condolences may be sent to www.kevinbrennanfamily.com. Steven K. Clark

Published in Topeka Capital-Journal on September 9, 2012
 
I want to end by including some photographs of Steve and his family.   Steve, I wish you God's Speed on your new journey.
 


 

This is the first known photograph of Steven K. and Stanley J. Clark, twin sons of John L. "Tim" and Lucille (Corbin) Clark.   The photograph was taken shortly after their birth on January 27, 1955.  Steve is on the left and Stan is on the right.
 

This is a photograph of the John L. "Tim" Clark family, taken in the dining room of the Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin farm home south of Maple Hill, Kansas.  L-R: Stan Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Gary Clark, Steve Clark, John "Tim" Clark and Nicholas "Nickey" Clark.  This photograph was taken in the late summer of 1956.
 
This is a photograph taken in the living room of the John "Tim" and Lucille (Corbin) Clark home in Maple Hill, Kansas sometime in 1955.  L-R:  Steve Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, and Stan Clark.
This photo was taken behind the Maple Hill Central Office in 1955.  L-R: Steve Clark, John L. "Tim" Clark and Stan Clark.
These photos are of Steven when he attended Maple Hill Grade School, Maple Hill, Kansas
 
 
This photograph is of the wedding party for Steve and Brenda (Harris) Clark, taken September 15, 1979 in Topeka, Kansas.  L-R:  Amy (Clark) Allendorf, Nicholas Clark, Verona (Little) Clark, Nicholas Clark II, John L. "Tim" Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Brenda (Harris) Clark, Steven K. Clark, Mildred (McCauley) Corbin-Clark, Mabel R. (Jones) Clark,Terri (O'Dell) Clark, Gary W. Clark, Judy (Henderson) Clark, and Stanley J. Clark.
 
The Steve Clark Family:  L-R:  Katy Lynn Clark, Steven K. Clark, Timothy John Clark, and Brenda (Harris) Clark.
 
 
L-R:  standing Steven K. Clark, Stanley J. Clark and Gary Wayne Clark.   Seated, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, and John Leander "Tim" Clark.   The photo was taken in the living room of Moundview Farm, west of Maple Hill, Kansas.
 
 
This photograph was taken shortly before Steve's death.  L-R:  Steven K. Clark, Timothy John Clark, Katy Lynn Clark, Noah Porter Clark, and Joshua Ray.  The photo was taken by Brenda (Harris) Clark.