Monday, December 17, 2012

Why God?


WHY GOD?

          I have tried to be a Christian all my life, and as a believer, it always amazes me when people waste their time asking “Why?” and blaming God for a tragedy or sudden death.  This is an unanswerable and inappropriate question. 

There are at least two scriptures that should give us great comfort at these times:

1 John 4:8 (NIV)


8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

            God created us out of love.   He nurtures us out of love.    He will welcome us to His eternal home out of love.   The God that I know, would never, never, never, will a disaster such as Hurricane Sandy or the tragic deaths that have occurred in Newtown, Connecticut and in other places and times. 

            God is pure love and therefore, God cares about all those who lose their lives, no matter the circumstances.  God gave his human creation free will, the ability to reason and make their own decisions.   God gave us the ability to reason whether or not we wish to be Christians.  God’s will is for our good, so we could better spend time asking these questions for which there are reasonable answers:

“Why do we eat too much?”  

“Why do we buy cars that will go 200 mph when we know the speed limit is 80 mph?”  

“Why do we smoke when we know it may kill us?”  

“Although I am a hunter and enjoy the use of hunting weapons, or the ability to protect myself, why should I as an ordinary citizen be allowed to own automatic weapons that will shoot more than five or six shells at a time?” 

Why do we waste time asking ‘Why?’ to unanswerable questions when we could spend that same energy trying to solve problems with reason and loving others unconditionally?”

God is love.   So leave God out of the blame and guilt equations in tragic situations.   God creates, loves, hears prayer, provides healing, extends grace, and gives us everlasting life.    That’s all that God does.  Right now, God has taken care of all those involved, victims and perpetrator, and they know no pain or suffering, only light and perpetual love.

Often times, I have been told that John 3: 16 is the most important verse in the Holy Bible: 

John 3:16 (NIV) 

16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.


This was the first Bible verse my mother taught me as a child.  Without doubt, that scripture is important, but using my prerogative for free will, I believe the verse that follows, John 3: 17, is equally important:

John 3:17 (NIV)

17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.

            Friends, if you believe in God and want to have a pleasant and useful life, don’t waste your time condemning.  God doesn’t.  Make your life a living example of loving and forgiving and finding productive solutions for your problems, for those of others, and for our world, solutions that will allow us to believe:  “God is love.” 
             My love and prayers go out to all those in need wherever they may be.
 
 

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Grandma Clark's Butterscotch Pies

I'm sure there are a lot of my Clark cousins, who will remember being treated to one or more slices of Grandma Clark's butterscotch pies.    Mabel Rachel (Jones) Clark was a wonderful cook.   I have a little book with several of her recipes in it.   They're all written in her handwriting.   In the front of that book she wrote:  "A receipt isn't a receipt unless is has a dozen eggs, two cups of sugar, a pound of butter and a quart of cream."     I'm sure this was written with tongue in cheek but since her husband, James Peter Clark, owned and operated a small dairy in Maple Hill, Kansas, she had all of the cream and butter that she needed or wanted.



This is a photo of Mabel Rachel (Jones) Clark taken in the front yard of the John L. and Lucille (Corbin) Clark home at Maple Hill, Kansas.   She lived to be 92.

Mabel (Jones) Clark was my paternal grandmother and my earliest memories are of helping her shovel coal into her big iron cook range in the kitchen at the Maple Hill Central Office where she was the chief operator.   She loved to cook and enjoyed having family and friends for meals often. 

Grandmother made the most wonderful navy bean soup, to which she added egg dumplings dropped into the soup from a tablespoon.  She would always say, "Now don't lift the lid for 10 minutes or the dumplings will spoil."  When she made the bean soup and dumplings, she would always joke that her father ate them until they killed him.   The story originated because her father, Leander Emory "Deacon" Jones had lunch at her house on the day he was to serve as pall bearer for his friend Alfred E. Herron, father of Maple Hill's barber, Wilbur V. "Jack" Herron.   He was eating the beans and dumplings that day when he suffered a fatal heart attack and fell forward into his plate.   That was 1938 and Grandmother said she couldn't fix the beans for 10 years because it was just too painful to remember her father's death.

I don't think Grandmother Clark ever had a failure with anything she cooked, but she was really known for her desserts.   She would often bake cakes and pies and send them to friends for their birthdays.   She also made cakes and pies for church and funeral dinners.   My two favorites were both pies:  butterscotch and crushed pineapple cream.    Both of these fabulously rich pies were served with big dollops of whipped cream.

The butterscotch used caramelized or "burnt" sugar which was made in her big, heavy old-fashioned iron skillet.  She would stoke up the coal range, put the skillet on top and drop a drop of water into the skillet.  If the water "scittled" all over the bottom of the skillet and disappeared into steam, the skillet was hot enough.   Then she would put two cups of white granulated sugar into the skillet and stir the mixture with a wooden spoon until it was golden brown.  Thus the sugar was burned, so to speak.   She would then add a cup of water and cook the mixture down into a thick, dark syrup-type liquid.   She would then take the skillet off the range and let the liquid cool.   She would pour it into a jar and when cooled, she'd put it into the refrigerator to be used as needed for pies, cakes and frostings.

Here is her very vague recipe for the butterscotch pie.   Note that she used corn starch to thicken the pudding-like batter.   Corn starch allows the pudding to be transparent, while if you use flour, it will be opaque and milky-looking.

Butterscotch Pie

Butterscotch syrup:
2 cup white sugar
1 cup water
Makes about one cup of
burnt sugar syrup.

Butterscotch:
All of Burnt Sugar Syrup from above.
6 eggs
1 1/2 cups white sugar
3 tablespoons (heaping) corn starch
2 sticks of butter
1 teaspoon vanilla
4 cups whole milk
pinch salt





Directions: 2 pie crusts, baked and ready.

Use a heavy iron skillet on the stove and add two cups of white sugar to an iron skillet to caramelize on the stove until golden brown.  In beginning, mix 1/3 cup of cold water with the sugar in the pan.  Be careful, because it will "pop" on you and burn you.  Then add the remaining water and stir to prevent sticking until the mixture reaches a soft ball stage.  (Hint from author: There are lots of Youtube videos about how to caramelize sugar.) This will make about a cup of burnt sugar syrup.

Mix all ingredients (eggs, cornstarch, vanilla, butter, milk, and salt) in a big mixing bowl. First beat eggs until foamy. Then add this to your white sugar, corn starch, butter, vanilla, add whole milk, and a pinch of salt. Pour this mixture in the big sause pan on the stove, add all the burnt sugar syrup, turn your burner up and cook, stirring constantly until thick. If you think it's too thick and needs more milk add some, same with cornstarch to make it thicker. Pour into baked pie shells.  This will make two pies.
 
 

This is one of the most wonderful desserts you will ever consume, but a couple of hints are needed.   First, you must be careful not to truly burn the sugar when you caramelize it.   With a gas or electric stove, set the flame or element to medium high, not high.  The whole process will not take more than 8-10 minutes.  If you use a candy thermometer, it should be between 330-340   Set the burnt sugar syrup aside to cool some and remember not to add it to the pudding mixture while it is too hot or you'll have "egg drop soup."   You need to either let the syrup cool until it is warm or "temper" it by adding a tablespoon at a time while whisking it vigorously.   This will prevent the eggs from cooking.  My grandmother used to stir the entire mixture vigorously while cooking the pudding.   I don't recall her having to add more milk but she often had to add additional corn starch.   Remember to mix the cornstarch with a little cold milk before adding it to the pudding mixture or it will be lumpy.

This pie may also be topped with meringe but I always thought the whipped cream was far superior.   I still have the blue two quart crock that Grandmother Clark always whipped her cream in.   She used a hand-held egg beater of course.    You should also know that if you whip the cream for too long, it will turn to butter---which is perfectly good to eat but not so good on top the pie :)

I'd love to hear your memories of special desserts made by Mable Clark!!

Okay cousins and friends---let's keep this Christmas tradition alive and try making Grandmother Clark's butterscotch pie for your Christmas table.    Bonn appetite!!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Second Child of Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin: George Samuel Corbin

I will now continue with the genealogy of the Corbin Family.

Thus far, I have written about the Corbin family in chronological order.   I want to continue in that manner.   I had finished with the family of Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin's oldest child, Lucille (Corbin) Clark and her husband John Leander "Tim" Clark.  Now I want to continue with Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin's second child: George Samuel Corbin. 

A short review may be in order.  Robert Corbin was the son of George Washington and Sarah Ann "Sally" (Todd) Corbin  and the grandson of James and Cynthia (Casteel) Corbin.  He married Mildred Mae McCauley in 1920, and they were the parents of five children.

I'm going to be writing about the second child of Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin, George Samuel Corbin.   I remember Uncle George as being a wonderful man.   He had an infectious chuckle that was similar in many ways to that of his uncle, my great uncle, Robert McCauley.  Uncle George was also a great practical joker.   He loved any good humored fun.  Uncle George was a good man, had a great work ethic, was a loving husband and father, exuberant and affectionate to the spouses of his children and very much loved his many grandchildren and great grandchildren.     Uncle George always had a kind word for everyone, inquired about what you were doing, and then expressed some kind of pride in your achievements.   I never knew him to say anything bad of others, he was always encouraging and emphasized the good in everyone.


The Robert Corbin Family taken in front of their home at Maple Hill, Kansas about 1935 or 1936.   L-R are George Samuel Corbin, Lucille Corbin (back) Mildred (McCauley) Corbin (back) and Robert Corbin (back.)   Standing in front L-R are Joan Corbin, Sarah Emma Corbin, and Vivian Mae Corbin.

Uncle George was an active Christian serving God and his fellow mankind through work at Second Presbyterian Church in Topeka, Kansas.    Uncle George took his Christian obligations seriously and spent a good portion of his time working at church and calling on members who were shut in or hospitalized.  In all the time I knew Uncle George, his word was golden.   If he told you he would do something, he saw that it was completed.

This photograph of the Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin family was taken between 1948 and 1950.  L-R are: George Samuel Corbin, Joan (Corbin) Andrews-Frazier, Robert Corbin, Mildred Mae (McCauley) Corbin, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Vivian Mae (Corbin) Wild and Sarah Emma (Corbin) Justice.

Uncle George was particularly attentive to his parents and four sisters, being the only boy among the five children of Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin.  I've often heard my mother say that he protected the Corbin girls and saw that if there were difficulties in school, they were remedied.   Uncle George "checked up" on his sisters, particularly in later years when their husbands began to pass away, and would have given the shirt off his back to any of them.  My mother, Lucille (Corbin) Clark always thought the sun rose and set in her brother George.

George Samuel Corbin was born on February 28, 1923 on the farm of his maternal grandmother, Lucy Mae (Lemon) McCauley, in the Snokomo Community, Newbury Township, Wabaunsee County, Kansas.   His parents were Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin.  His father, Robert, was tending the 160-acre farm after the death of Lucy's husband, Samuel McCauley.

 
This photograph was taken when Mildred Mae (McCauley) Corbin married a second time to Roy Hasdale Clark on September 23, 1973 at Maple Hill, Kansas.  Mildred was widowed in April 1958.   Roy and Mildred are seated in the front row.  In the second row L-R are Joan (Corbin) Andrews-Frazier, Freda (Kitt) Corbin, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Vivian Mae (Corbin ) Wild and Sarah Emma (Corbin) Justice.   In the back row L-R are Robert Frazier, George Samuel Corbin, John L. "Tim" Clark, George Wild and Leslie F. Justice.
 
Uncle George was named after his two grandfathers, George Washington Corbin and Samuel McCauley.

George Corbin, his siblings and parents moved from the farm when he was young and lived for several years west of Eskridge near where Lake Wabaunsee is located, and also in the town of Eskridge.  The family eventually moved to Maple Hill, Kansas where Robert worked on the Horace G. Adams Ranch.






A photograph, most likely taken in 1942, of George Samuel Corbin in his U. S. Army Air Corps uniform.  Thanks to his daughter, Sheila Kay (Corbin) Hill for sharing it with me.
George Samuel Corbin graduated from Maple Hill High School, Maple Hill, Kansas and went into the United States Army Air Corp.   He served in the China-Burma-India Theater.   Uncle George was seriously injured in a jeep accident while on active duty.   He returned and spent several months in a veteran's hospital in Denver, Colorado.   His injuries plagued him the rest of his life but didn't prevent him from working long hard hours at Goodyear Tire and Rubber, where he was employed as a labor and later a supervisor for 37 years.

This photograph was taken at a Christmas Celetration of the Corbin Family at the home of Mildred Mae (McCauley) Corbin-Clark during the 1970s.   L-R standing are Joan (Corbin) Andrews-Frazier, Vivian Mae (Corbin) Wild, Sarah Emma (Corbin) Justice.  Seated L-R are George Samuel Corbin and Lucille (Corbin) Clark.   As an aside, Mildred Corbin always had Christmas Eve and Christmas Day dinners for the family until she suffered a slight stroke when she was 88.   I remember her small home being literally filled with relatives and good food on those occasions and on many others.

During any wartime, there always seems to be an urgency when it comes to romance.   Sometimes the marriages made in haste work, and other times they do not.   George S. Corbin married Flora Belle Romig during his service in World War II.   This marriage ended in divorce after the war concluded.

George Samuel Corbin married Freda Arlene Kitt on May 29, 1947 at Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas.    Freda is the daughter of Fred Solomon and Mary Emeline (Clark) Kitt and was born at Maple Hill, Wabaunsee County, Kansas on March 15, 1929.   Her parents were both natives of the rural Mission Creek/Eskridge/Snokomo communities in Wabaunsee County, Kansas.   Freda had two siblings:  Camilla Marie (Kitt) Waldy and Olin Frederick Kitt.

Uncle George and Aunt Freda Corbin lived in Topeka, Kansas where Uncle George started his thirty-seven year career with Goodyear Tire and Rubber Company.   As a child, I thought Aunt Freda was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen.   She was also very kind and a loving aunt.   I remember them coming to the farm of my grandparents, Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin and spending many Sundays and holidays.

The Corbins were the parents of three children: Sheila Kay Corbin, born in Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas on November 27, 1948; Robert Frederick Corbin, born in Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas on October 17, 1951 and Ronald George Corbin born in Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas born on May 22, 1954.


This photograph was taken in about 1951 or 1952 on the farm of Robert and Mildred Mae (McCauley) Corbin about 1.5 miles south of Maple Hill, Kansas.   It was taken on one of the Sunday family gatherings that were so common then.   L-R are Lucy Mae (Lemon) McCauley-Banta-Strong, her daughter Mildred Mae (McCauley) Corbin and Robert Corbin.   The children in front are L-R:  Nicholas L. Clark, Gary W. Clark and Shiela Kay Corbin.  I remember Grandfather Corbin always wearing a ball cap.   The pack of Camel's cigarettes were always in his shirt pocket.   Of course, smoking eventually lead to his death but in those days not much was known about the ill effects of tobacco.  Grandfather Corbin always had a beautiful yard and garden.   I remember him out pushing the reel mower twice or more on weekday evenings and Grandmother Corbin was always out tending flowers.   They both spent many happy hours in their vegetable garden, which was about 1/2 acre in size and is behind them in the picture.   Grandmother Corbin and other relatives spent lots of hours canning vegetables on the kerosene stove that was kept on the enclosed back porch.   I was the oldest grandchild on the Corbin side, and Sheila Kay and Gary Wayne were very close in age.   I always remember Shiela Kay looking just like she does in this picture, dressed like a little doll with a bow in her hair.


During all the years I grew up, one of the family obligations we always had was attending the Lemon Family Reunion at Gage Park, Topeka, Kansas.   These reunions were planned by cousins Bill and Vernie Miller, and were very large in size.   We always looked forward to them because we got to go to Gage Park, play with cousins, and visit the Gage Park Zoo.   At the entrance to the zoo were these very large "lions."   This photograph was taken about 1950 and pictures Gary Wayne Clark and Shiela Kay Corbin.


























This is a photograph taken at the 1953 Lemon Family Reunion.   I am the little boy holding the left corner of the "Lemon Family Reunion" sign and cousin Vernie Miller is holding the right corner.   The second little boy from the left side of the front row is Gary W. Clark, then Shiela Kay Corbin, Nicholas L. Clark, and I believe the next two little boys are Ronnie and Robbie Frost, grandsons of Vernie Miller.  Uncle George Corbin is standing in the third row, fourth from the right, and is holding Robert Frederick Corbin.   Aunt Freda (Kitt) Corbin is standing in the top row, eighth from the left.

During the late 50s or early 60s, Uncle George and Aunt Freda Corbin built a lovely home on Sanford Lane in Topeka, where they lived together until his death at the age of 85 on April 4, 2008.   Aunt Freda continues to live in the home.   I remember going there many times for happy occasions.   I was always a little in awe of my cousin Shiela's talent with the piano.   She took lessons from Mrs. Flannigan in Topeka, Kansas and I remember going to several of her recitals.   All of the Corbin children attended and graduated from Seaman High School, in the north suburbs of Topeka.

Uncle George Corbin passed away in his 85th year on April 4, 2008 at the Midland Hospice in Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas.

I will stop at this point.   The next blog will present information about the children of George Samuel and Freda (Kitt) Corbin.    Happy Trails!


Friday, September 28, 2012

Remembering the 1961 Maple Hill High School Junior/Senior Prom

While visiting Kansas earlier this month, my family gathered for dinner at The Blind Tiger Brewery and Restaurant, which is located at the south end of what used to be White Lakes Shopping Center near 37th and Topeka Avenue in Topeka, Kansas.   I didn't recognize the name, but as we drove into the parking lot, I realized that 50 years ago, the restaurant was known as Helen's Catering and Party House.


This above is a current photograph of The Blind Tiger Brewery and Restaurant, which has had some additions since my high school prom 50 years ago.   I remember only the very large stone house at the right.   I don't remember Helen's last name, but I remember her as a very elegant, white-haired lady who played host to many of the area's nicer private parties.

Maple Hill was a town of about 350 when I attended high school there.   The entire high school had only 41 students in 1961 and 1962, my junior and senior years.  The school was built in 1921 and had double the enrollment at that time.   I don't think the town's population was any larger at that time, but the size of families was much larger in the 1920s and 1930s than in the 1950s and 1960s.   The school was consolidated with other Wabaunsee County schools in 1968 and was torn down during the 1990s.

There were 10 students in our class of 1962.   There were 12 students in the class of 1961.   I suppose it wasn't very practical to operate a high school for 40 students, but we received an excellent education from the faculty of six teachers, of which two coached football, basketball and other sports.   One of those faculty members was a full-time music teacher and Maple Hill High School had what I always thought of as a good band, chorus and other music activities.   That was supplemented by Mrs. Lois Hammarlund, who was our church organist and choir director.   She and her brother Edwin Stambaugh had both received excellent musical training at McPherson College in McPherson, Kansas.   But as usual, I digress!

The Junior Class always "sponsored" the prom for the senior class during my school days.   Each of the classes had fund raising projects and made money to sponsor these events.   The junior class of 1962 included five boys and five girls:   Mary Sue Kitt, Claudia Arnold, Sharon Oliver, Patty Holmes and Janice Yount were the girls and Larry Schulte, Art Adams, Jr., twins Horace and Norris Hoobler and myself were the five boys.    I remember our class selling magazines as a fundraiser and we also took our turns sponsoring the concession stand during football and basketball events.   There may have been others.

We began planning the prom after Christmas.   We decided that the theme would be "Evening In Paris."   We made some of the decorations and we ordered others out of school catalogues.   We spent a lot of time during and after school making decorations and signs.  I believe we hired a DJ to provide dance music for the evening---although my memory is not crystal clear on that point.   We may have just had a record player and 45rpms of popular songs like, "Smoke Gets In Your Eyes," "I Can't Stop Loving You," "Soldier Boy," "Duke of Earl," "Twist and Shout," "Johnny Get Angry," "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" and so many others.

I was a saver even then---and in a scrapbook, I have the menu, program, napkin and several snap shots of the evening.   I remember Oney Clark, our MHHS custodian and bus driver, taking us to Topeka several times to meet with Helen at Helen's Catering and Party House, and also to decorate a couple of days prior to the event.   Oney was a lot of fun and probably more permissive than he should have been, but we all liked he and his wife Juanita.


Oney and Juanita Clark on the front porch of their home in Maple Hill, Kansas.
Oney was a cousin of mind and he and Juanita (Arnold) Clark lived either next door or very near us most of the time I was growing up in Maple Hill.   
 
After 50 years, the memories of that "Evening In Paris" are very dull.   I remember that my date for the evening was Claudia Arnold and I remember having a good time---riding the school bus to and from Maple Hill, just insure our safety and that we didn't sneak a Coors into the party :)
 
I don't know why I have so few photographs of the evening.    Perhaps there was a camera malfunction or some other reason, but I'll share with you what photos I have:
 
 Norris Hoobler and Mary Sue Kit.
 
 




 


 





Arthur Adams, Jr. and his date, Patty Holmes.


 
Class sponsor, Miss Florence Crawford, Paxico, Kansas.

 
Sitting at the left is Oney Clark.   Sitting at the table for four at the right are:  (facing the camera) Ginger Wilson and Merle Lietz (school board member).   With their backs to the camera are Principal Jack Wilson and Mrs. Nora Lietz.
 
I wish I had found these photographs for the 50th Alumni Reunion in June, 2012, but I didn't find them until just recently.    What a great time we had at the Junior/Senior Prom in 1962.    Those were years to remember and look back on with pleasure.
 
Note:   I am looking for a good photograph of Maple Hill High School.   Does anyone have one they would be willing to scan and share via email?    Many thanks!!
 




 
 
 
 
 
   

Monday, September 17, 2012

It's Time To Begin Anew

I noted that my last blog was posted on August 2, 2012.   I'm sorry that I have not been very faithful to continue with my historical and genealogical writing, but perhaps now I will be able to continue with regular contributions through the fall and winter.

As I've mentioned before, I began this blog because I have hundreds of photographs gifted to me from my mother, and both grandmothers.   Fortunately, most of the people in those photographs are identified.   I promised these ladies that I would publish them and share them with my siblings and other relatives.   At the time, I thought I'd write a book but preparing this blog is much better.  Not only are the photographs and information available to my immediately family, but also to my extended family and anyone who cares to utilize the blog.   I'm also very happy that any of the photos on this blog are easily copied and transferred to the computer of the reader.   It's certainly a win/win situation.   Now all I have to do is scan the photos and write the material.

This past week, I returned from attending the funeral of my younger brother, Steven K. Clark of Topeka, Kansas.   Steve was only 57 years old.  Five years ago, doctors discovered lung cancer and Steve underwent surgery to remove affected areas.   Surgery was followed by chemo therapy.  It took several months, but Steve's health improved and he was hopeful that he had beaten it.

Unfortunately, the cancer returned earlier this year as bone marrow cancer and lymphoma.   Steve has spent much of the last three months either hospitalized or in Hope Lodge, a residential treatment center of the American Cancer Society in Kansas City, Missouri.  Unfortunately, all that could be done by physicians and medical science, as well as a loving wife and family, could not prevent his untimely death.

I was 12 when my twin brothers, Steven K. and Stanley J. Clark, were born in 1955.  I was old enough to help with their care, and yes, tease them mercilessly.  Unfortunately, I was headed off to college when they entered Kindergarten, so I missed a good portion of their grade school and high school days.   As happened when my mother passed away in 2011, I heard stories about Steve and Stan's early life that I had never heard when we met with the pastor to plan his funeral service.

As happens when identical twins are separated, my brother Stanley J. Clark has especially felt the loss.  Stan told the pastor that he didn't think a single day had passed in the last 57 years when he and Steve didn't visit in person or on the phone several times.   They did everything together through their life.

Steve's wife Brenda (Harris) Clark, has been his rock throughout his battle against cancer.   She stayed by his side, sleeping in a hospital bed much of the time, to make sure that he took his medicines and had the help he needed.  No wife was ever more loving and loyal than Brenda.

Steve's children, were there for him, and without a doubt, one of the most important people in his life over the past year was his grandson, Noah Porter Ray.  Here is a copy of Steve's obituary:


Steven K Clark, 57, of Topeka, passed away September 7, 2012 at a Topeka hospital after a courageous battle with cancer. Steve was born January 27, 1955, in Wamego KS to John L. and Lucille (Corbin) Clark. He graduated from Alma High School 1973. He married Brenda Harris September 15, 1979 in Topeka. She survives. Steve started his 36 years of working at the Colmery-O'Neil V.A. Medical Center as a nurse's aide, then supply technician and finally as head of supply for logistics. He was an avid outdoorsman who loved to fish and hunt and he graciously shared his bounty. Steve was a loving husband, a wonderful father and grandfather. He is survived by his wife, Brenda, Topeka; children, T.J. Clark, Topeka, Katy Lynn Clark (Josh Ray), Topeka; grandson, Noah; brothers, Nicholas L. Clark, Palm Springs CA, Gary W. Clark, Maple Hill; twin brother, Stanly J Clark (Karen), Topeka; parents-in-law, Denzil and Marilyn Harris; brothers and sisters-in-law, Jim and Sherry O'Neill, Holton, and David and Emily Harris, Topeka; many nieces and nephews and his loving yellow lab, Buck. Family will greet friends from 4-6 p.m., Tuesday at Kevin Brennan Family Funeral Home, 2801 SW Urish Rd, Topeka KS 66614, where a Memorial Celebration of Life will be at 6 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to Clark Grandchildren Education Memorial Fund at any Envista Credit Union or to American Cancer Society's Hope Lodge, KC MO sent in care of the funeral home. Online condolences may be sent to www.kevinbrennanfamily.com. Steven K. Clark

Published in Topeka Capital-Journal on September 9, 2012
 
I want to end by including some photographs of Steve and his family.   Steve, I wish you God's Speed on your new journey.
 


 

This is the first known photograph of Steven K. and Stanley J. Clark, twin sons of John L. "Tim" and Lucille (Corbin) Clark.   The photograph was taken shortly after their birth on January 27, 1955.  Steve is on the left and Stan is on the right.
 

This is a photograph of the John L. "Tim" Clark family, taken in the dining room of the Robert and Mildred (McCauley) Corbin farm home south of Maple Hill, Kansas.  L-R: Stan Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Gary Clark, Steve Clark, John "Tim" Clark and Nicholas "Nickey" Clark.  This photograph was taken in the late summer of 1956.
 
This is a photograph taken in the living room of the John "Tim" and Lucille (Corbin) Clark home in Maple Hill, Kansas sometime in 1955.  L-R:  Steve Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, and Stan Clark.
This photo was taken behind the Maple Hill Central Office in 1955.  L-R: Steve Clark, John L. "Tim" Clark and Stan Clark.
These photos are of Steven when he attended Maple Hill Grade School, Maple Hill, Kansas
 
 
This photograph is of the wedding party for Steve and Brenda (Harris) Clark, taken September 15, 1979 in Topeka, Kansas.  L-R:  Amy (Clark) Allendorf, Nicholas Clark, Verona (Little) Clark, Nicholas Clark II, John L. "Tim" Clark, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, Brenda (Harris) Clark, Steven K. Clark, Mildred (McCauley) Corbin-Clark, Mabel R. (Jones) Clark,Terri (O'Dell) Clark, Gary W. Clark, Judy (Henderson) Clark, and Stanley J. Clark.
 
The Steve Clark Family:  L-R:  Katy Lynn Clark, Steven K. Clark, Timothy John Clark, and Brenda (Harris) Clark.
 
 
L-R:  standing Steven K. Clark, Stanley J. Clark and Gary Wayne Clark.   Seated, Lucille (Corbin) Clark, and John Leander "Tim" Clark.   The photo was taken in the living room of Moundview Farm, west of Maple Hill, Kansas.
 
 
This photograph was taken shortly before Steve's death.  L-R:  Steven K. Clark, Timothy John Clark, Katy Lynn Clark, Noah Porter Clark, and Joshua Ray.  The photo was taken by Brenda (Harris) Clark.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

The Warren/Cocks/Romig/Kitchen/Clark/Willet Farmhouse at Maple Hill, Kansas

Greetings to all!    I'm back from my trip to Europe.   Unfortunately, I caught some kind of viral infection while on the river cruise and it really knocked me out for a couple of weeks.   I missed some of the planned excursions on the trip and just sort of "languished" for a week or so when returned home.    I'm feeling better now and I want to get back to writing.

During mid-June, I attended the 50th reunion of my Maple Hill High School graduating class of 1962.    Eight of the ten members of my class were present (there were 41 students in MHHS at the time I graduated) and we enjoyed talking about old times and getting caught up with each other, as well as talking about our grandchildren and those kinds of things.   All ten of my classmates are living and well, but for one reason or another, two were not able to attend.   The Alumni Association invites those who may have attended but didn't graduate from MHHS.   Among those present were Brent and Douglas Kitchen.   They went thought the first eight grades at MHHS, but then transferred to Rossville High School.   It was good to see them again.  Brent now lives in the Ozarks of southwest Missouri and Doug lives in Nashville, Tennessee.

In February 1973, I bought 10 acres and what was then known as the Kitchen House, from their parents Oliver and Shirley Kitchen.    I owned the property from 1973 until 2005, when I sold it to Jeff and Annette Willett.   Doug and I were talking about the old house and how much we both enjoyed living there and he asked me about it's history.   I told him about the blog and promised to write what I knew after returning home.    Here's the fulfillment of that promise.


This is a 1975 photograph of the ashlar stone house built in 1890 by Senator William Willets Cocks on 600 acres located three miles west of Maple Hill, Kansas.  The house was built with a gambrel roof line, which is common to Long Island, New York, where Senator Cocks was born and raised, but is one of the only gambrel roof line homes in Wabaunsee County, Kansas. 

The land on which the house is located, was a part of the Potawatomi Indian Reservation until becoming a part of those sections of land granted to the Atchison, Topeka, and Santa Fe Railroad by the United States Government.   When the Atchison, Topeka and Santa Fe Railroad sold the land, the funds were to be used to cover construction and operation costs of building their railroad across Kansas.    To obtain land from the Indians to be used for the grants, the United States Government negotiated a treaty with the Potawatomi Indian Nation which provided for the present reservation north of Topeka, Kansas in Jackson County and also provided lands in southcentral Oklahoma for the removal of a majority of tribal families.  Nearly 3,000,000 acres was sold by the Potawatomi.

I became interested in the history of Maple Hill Township while a high school student and after purchasing the Kitchen property, I visited many times with William Sprague "Bill" Warren and his brother John Dura "Jack" Warren about how their family, native to Connecticut, Massachusetts and New York came to own Kansas lands.  I wrote the story of their family for "New Branches from Old Trees: A New History of Wabaunsee County, Kansas," published by the Wabaunsee County Historical Socity in 1976.

It was a tragic financial loss that brought the Warren and other related famlies to Maple Hill Township.   The Warren Family was an old, distinguished and wealthy New England Family that traced its heritage to the Mayflower Colonists.  The family lived in Connecticut, Massachusetts and New York States from the 1600s until moving to Maple Hill Township in 1873.

Bill Warren told me that various members of the family had invested heavily in banks and railroads following the Civil War.  Banks loaned money to the railroads to build lines to the growing Midwest and West.   Credit in the form of loans and bonds was extended to railroads when there was no more collateral than the paper on which bonds were printed.    As a result, some of the nation's largest financial institutions failed in what became known as The Railroad Panic of 1873.   As a result, many families, the brokers, banks and construction companies failed and went into foreclosure.   Among those who lost their family fortunes were the Warren and Cheney Families.

Bill and Jack Warren told me that their grandfather, William Henry Warren, was a successful banker and stock broker in New York City.   His father, Dura Warren and his wife Meletiah (Childs) Warren lived in Connecticut and owned a successful inn and horse breeding farm.   They had invested money in stocks and bonds with their son, William Henry Warren.   When the companies failed, the stocks and bonds became worthless.

Their salvation came in the form of three Atchison, Topeka and Santa Fe Railway bonds which had been purchased at $1,000 face value by William Henry Warren for his wife Meletiah (Childs) Warren.   There were coupons attached to the bonds which entitled the holder of each bond to purchase up to 600 acres of Kansas land at no more than $2.50 per acre.   Ruined by the financial panic which occurred in August 1873, the families decided to sell their properties in the East, taking what they could get, rent a railroad boxcar for their possessions, cash in their bonds, and move to Kansas where they could start over.

Bill Warren said they were not able to sell the bonds for the full $3,000 face value, but had to take a discount of $1,000.   Their total cash capital was $2,000 plus an additional $1,000 raised from property sales for a total of $3,000.  The decision having been made, the family bravely boarded a passenger train bound for St. Marys, Kansas.   They arrived there the second week in November, 1873 just as winter approached.   Those in the party were: Dura anad Meletiah (Childs) Warren and two unmarried children, Charles and Annie Warren.  A third child, William Henry Warren and his wife Maria Joy (Cheney) Warren and their son, William Warren, Jr., and Mrs. Warren's parents Samuel and Julia Cheney, and Mrs. Warren's sister Ellen Cheney Thayer and her husband Albert F. Thayer.  There were eleven in all.


I took this photograph of the William Henry Warren home west of Maple Hill in 1975.  The house was built in 1874.  In 1975, the house was occupied by William Henry Warren's grandsons, William Sprague "Bill" and John Dura "Jack" Warren.  Since their deaths, the house has been sold to Bud and Catherine Hund of Paxico, who have done extensive restoration work there.   This house and the Dura and Meletiah Warren House were built from the same floor plan.   The bay-window conservatory which was built in front of the downstairs left windows has been been removed, as has the pantry on the first-floor rear of the house.   There was also a front porch over the front steps, which has been replaced by the Hunds.  Imagine building this house for $200 today???

The families rented rooms at St. Marys and settled in for the winter.  They rented livery buggies and wagons and visited lands in the Mill Creek Valley, where Frederick Raymond and William Pierce had already purchased ranches.   Mr. Raymond and Mr. Pierce were the bachelor nephews of men who were on the board of directors of the Atchison, Topeka, and Santa Fe Railroad which was mostly controlled by Boston merchants and businessmen.  They advised the Warrens, Cheneys and Thayers to purchase Sectoins 15, 16, 21 and 22 at $1.25 per acre for a total of $3,000.   They purchased all of the land and then sold the north half of Section 16 to the Clothier family for $2.50 per acre netting them $800.

These sums seem minuscule today, when we think of paying hundreds of thousands of dollars for a 600 acre section of pasture land, but to these families who had been wealthy and were suddenly at poverty's door, they were equally significant.

With the remaining $800, the families contracted to have 400 acres of prairie broken and planted to wheat the next spring.   In addition, there was an entire colony of Swedish immigrants living in St. Marys, Kansas.   These families included many talented stone masons.   The Warren and Thayer families contracted with the colony to have stone quarried from their pastures used for the construction of three very large dwellings and two barns.

Two-story identical homes were built for William Henry Warren and Maria Joy Warren and for his parents, Dura and Meletiah (Childs) Warren.   Each of these houses was to have a large parlor, a central hallway, a sitting room with bay window conservatory, a dining room, a large eat-in kitchen, a pantry, and six bedrooms on the second floor.  The third floor was to be finished as two large rooms for storage and dormitory sleeping area for hired help.  The second floor was also to have a "toilet" room which was configured the same as an outhouse, but had chamber pots under the two-hole seats.  Each house was to also have a partial basement with a tornado shelter.   Since stone house collapse into basements when hit by tornadoes, the houses had small "rooms" built in the basements.   The rooms had stone walls with large walnut logs overhead substantial enough to prevent collapse.   The Swedish masons were to quarry the stone and provide construction of stone walls, wooden framing and plastering.    The windows, doors, cabinetry and millwork came from Kansas City, Missouri.

They Thayers also had a stone house built which was slightly smaller and included only four bedrooms but also had a finished attic and a large living room, dining room and eat-in kitchen.   There were porches across both the north and south exteriors.  Albert F. Thayer and William Henry Warren had both received an excellent education which included degrees from the Massachusetts College of Agriculture.   Albert F. Thayer was also hired as a construction engineer for several Midwestern railroads.   Bill Warren said that he recalled his father saying that the houses and barns were designed by William Henry Warren and Albert F. Thayer.

With their hopes soaring, the families awaited the harvest of their 400-acre wheat crop in the late summer, 1874.   Wheat was at an all-time high price and they thought that they would gain enough funds from the sale of their crop to fence in their properties, break more cropland from native pasture ground, and purchase additional seed wheat for 1875.    However, just as the crop was ready to harvest, The Great Grasshopper Plague of 1874 descended upon their fields and those of farmers in the entire Midwest.   Not a single stalk of wheat was harvested.

Bill Warren used to shake his head when I'd ask him about where they got money to survive the winter and plant crops the next year.   He would simply said, "I don't know.   They never said where it came from."   His guess is that other relatives in the East or wealthy friends in Boston and New York lent the money to them, but he said his father never said where the money came from.

Bumper crops were harvested in the next two years, with yields of 30 to 38 bushels per acre.   In 1877, the Maple Hill news reporter for the Wabaunsee Signal Enterprise reported that William H. Warren had purchased a new wheat harvester and binder and would be using it on his own farm as well as contracting to harvest grain on other farms.  The families were doing well.

In 1885, disaster again visited the new settlers.   The following article was included in the Maple Hill News items:  December 9 – A serious fire occurred in Maple Hill on Thursday morning when the beautiful stone residence of Mr. and Mrs. Dura Warren with the contents was destroyed.   Mrs. Warren was first made aware of the fire when her maid came into her chamber screaming fire.   They barely got out from upstairs when parts began to collapse.  The men were husking in the field and Rev. Crouch and family, who live opposite their former home, were there almost as quickly as the women got out, but the fire was too hot and all was lost.  Mr. Isaac Stephenson was nearly killed while trying to retrieve winter provisions from the basement when the walls caved in on him but miraculously escaped.  The source of the fire was a faulty flue.  Neighbors who saw the smoke came from three or four miles.   They will make their temporary home with their daughter-in-law, Mrs. William H. (Maria Joy Cheney) Warren."

Since Mrs. Meletiah Warren was advanced in age, the home was not rebuilt.   The charred basement foundation remained.

In 1890, an acquaintance of William Dura Warren, by the name of Senator William Willets Cocks, purchased 400 acres of land from the Warren family which included the former residence site of Dura and Meletiah (Childs) Warren.   On the old foundation, he built a new eight-room stone house, using the same stone quary on the north side of Old Highway 10, that had been used to provide stone for the earlier stone house.

During the early years of my ownership of this house, I did not know that it had been built on the old Warren House foundation, and I often wondered why all of the basement stone showed signs of being burned.   Much of the stone was red and white, which indicates that it has been exposed to high heat.  Senator Cocks simply cleared out the debris from the fire and used the foundation for his new home.

William Willets Cocks was born at Old Westbury, Nassau County, Long Island on July 24, 1861 and was a contemporary of William Dura Warren.   He was from a wealthy and influencial family and was the son of Isaac Hicks Cocks and his wife Mary Titus (Willets) Cocks.   The Cocks were Quakers and attended meetings weekly near Old Westbury.


Senator William Willets Cocks, Old Westbury, Nassau County, Long Island, New York

William Cocks served as Road Commissioner for Nassau County, during the 1890s and was in office when automobiles began to traverse Long Island.   He served as a State Senator from Nassau County and as a New York Assemblyman from 1903 to 1904.   He was elected to Congress in 1905 and served until 1911.

He was the author and sponsor of the first speed limit and automobile laws for New York State and became quite well-known both in New York and nationally for his advocacy of auto safety.  He was know as the "Quaker Congressman.  He had attended school with President Theodore Roosevelt and was one of his close advisers.  Both men graduated form Swarthmore College in Pennsylvania.

Sen. Cocks owned extensive agricultural interests in "the West" including the property at Maple Hill.   His purpose in buying the ranch in Maple Hill Township, was to raise thoroughbred racing horses, which were shipped East to be trained to race.   After purchasing the land, he hired Walter and David Hamilton to staff the operation, which he called "Long Island Farm."   One of the sires on the farm was the grandson of racing legend "Diomed Wilkes," famous both in Europe and America.  The Hamilton's maiden sister, Janet Hamilton, moved into the new stone house with them.   Although Senator Cocks reserved an upstairs room in the house, he usually stayed at the home of his friend, William Dura Warren, one mile to the east.

Senator Cocks lived on the Cocks Estate at Old Westbury all of his life.  He was elected mayor of Old Westbury in 1924 and served in that role until his death on May 24, 1932.  


The Cocks House, Old Westbury, Nassau County, Long Island, New York, is now registered on the National Register of Historic Plaaces.

His death occurred when he was injured while riding one of his horses on his estate.   There is a coincidence in that William Dura Warren also died as the result of a fall from his horse while riding on his ranch west of Maple Hill---but thirty years later.

Senator Cocks sold Long Island Farm to Ulysses Grant Romig in 1907.  Romig and his father, Henry Joseph Romig, moved from near Manhattan, Geary County, Kansas to adjoining farms three miles west of Maple Hill.   Grant Romig was married to Flora Millie Hulse and they raised seven children in the Cocks farmhouse:  Olive May, Margaret Ann, Wendell Grant, Ulysses Reed, Clifford Willis, Mildred Flora and Kenneth Roy Romig.

Ulysses Grant Romig died in 1948 and the farm and home were sold to Oliver and Shirley Kitchen who lifed there until the early 1960s, when they moved to the South living in Florida and Tennessee.
The farm and home were rented to various families until I bought it in February 1973.

The stone home was in pretty bad shape in 1973.   It had old electrical wiring.   It had never had running water or indoor plumbing.   Raccoons had torn fascia boards off and were living in the attic.  The roof leaked buckets of rain.  We moved into the house on Easter weekend in 1973 and lived in one room until work could be completed in other rooms.

When we bought the house, it had four large bedrooms upstairs and a kitchen, dining room, living room and parlor downstairs.   The house had a full basement.   We first put on a new roof and then tore out a window which went from the kitchen to the enclosed back porch.   We replaced the window with a door and built a new downstairs bath and laundry room in the enclosed back porch.   Then we took out wall partitions for an upstairs bedroom and built a full bath and office area.  That left three large bedrooms upstairs.  We took out all the windows, replaced some of the sash and reglazed all windows.  Plywood flooring was laidd in the attic and two furnaces and air-conditioning systems were installed in the house, one in the attic and the other in the basement.

The house had a central fireplace and chimney which had not been properly supported in the basement, so the entire fireplace was torn out of the house and rebuilt brick by brick.  The old plaster had been loosened over the years and finally the plaster was torn off, new sheetrock was applied and taped and then the walls were papered or painted.    Most of the work was completed during the seven years my family lived in the house, although some was done after we converted it to rental property and moved out-of-state.    We sold the house to Jeff and Annette Willett and their family in 2005.

While we lived there, we called the property Moundview Farm because when you look out the south windows of the house, you see Buffalo Mound in the distance.   Both children, Nicholas and Amelia were born while we lived at Moundview Farm.  We loved the property and enjoyed having large gardens and raising calves while we lived there.    We were sorry to leave but decided that if we wanted to take advantage of our educations, we had to live elsewhere.

Anyhow---that's as much as I know about the stone house west of Maple Hill built in 1890 by Senator William Willets Cocks. 

Happy Trails!